Today is day 2 of the 7 Days to Rediscovering Your Blogging Groove at the Write Tribe. And today we are answering a question.
The question I am going to answer is What if I die now? Yes, it is a strange question. And no, I have no inclination towards dying right now. But what if it happens the next moment?
Of course, I will be sad to leave all these behind. And don’t get me started on my kid and husband. Death is indeed a sad business. But there is more to it. I have a philosophy, that when we live we should live so that when it is time to say bye we should not regret, we should not feel like we had made mistakes or passed on opportunities.
In the 31 years of life, I have seen the beautiful and the ugly face of life. I have dealt with the goods, the bads, and the worst life had thrown at me. I survived those. There were differences of opinions on how to deal with bad phases of life, but my ways proved to suit me. I do not have regrets that I had to cut some out of my life nor do I regret that I got into few’s bad book.
I have few shattered dreams. I have few complaints to the God, or whoever scripted my life’s play. But I did what was in my control. And I am happy now, I was happy then, regardless what the situation was. I have learned from my mistakes and I think I haven’t committed the same mistakes again, not in my knowledge anyways. I have learned to make peace with the present. Even better, I learned to believe in me.
As I said I earlier, I will be sad to go at this moment, which constitutes that I have a life I cherish. And all the bitterness life presented made me a better person, at least in my eyes. So if death knocks on my door now, I might ask for five more minutes but I can go without much hesitation.
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