“It is not joy that makes us grateful; it is gratitude that makes us joyful.”– David Steindl-Rast
January is a month of freshness. Like opening a fresh new book with blank pages ready to be filled in. But it also makes me nervous. Anything I write on this new page quickly takes away the freshness. And before I know it, the book would lose its novelty.
So yes, the first week of January had a lot of pressure on me. Thankfully though, it was a pleasant and calm one.
Here in Phoenix, the new year started as a rainy day. I loved waking up to a wet and cold day. And being a holiday, the charm of rain simply doubled. We went on a drive in the rain because that’s our favorite thing to do. Watching the raindrops racing to kiss the window pane is another favorite activity of mine. All in al, rain alone made the first day of 2023 a beautiful one.
New year’s time is an excuse to connect with friends and family with whom we are not in touch regularly. I had sent and received a lot of wishes which made me feel happy.
I have been journaling regularly in the past months. Journaling consistently is making me feel relaxed. The purpose of journaling is not to brag about consistency, but to get in touch with myself. It gives me clarity. Journaling, for me, is like talking to a friend who is not judgmental or distracted by their phone. I don’t write the same number of words every single day. Some days I ramble and fill in pages after pages. Some days my thoughts are concise and a few paragraphs are all I need. I am grateful for enjoying the whole process of writing down my thoughts and finding a friend in the pages of a notebook.
The first week of 2023 saw an incredible level of reading for me. I finished two books in six days. The first one was the latest book authored by a fellow blogger Ruchira Khanna, Never Say Never. It was a light read. I liked the story and the message. Second one was an audio book ‘ Man’s Search for Meaning’ by Viktor Frankl. It was a good book that made me think. Some stories will make you pause and reflect a lot. This was one such book.
I didn’t set out to read two books in a week. But I am glad that it happened.
My kids’ schools resumed on Wednesday. The cold January mornings are much suited for sleeping in to tell you the truth. Thankfully, I was able to get back to my routine of waking up at 5:30 am without snoozing the alarm. I need a slow start to my morning, doin things I love to do, than a hurried one rushing from one point to another creating more chaos. I have my kids to create a sustainable chaos to my day. 😀I am grateful that the morning chaos is never uncontrollable, maybe, thanks to my morning routine.
I have made some promises to myself this year. One of those promises is to show up for myself. I don’t know about the rest of the stuff, but I intend to keep this one promise.
I am grateful for every day when I can be there for myself. Everything else simply falls in place when that bit is done. Right?
How did the first week of 2023 treat you? Let me know in the comments.